Guys, Clueless About Valentines Day Jewelry Shopping?
Wednesday, March 4th, 2009Most men find it frustrating to shop for Valentine jewelry for their girl, and you are likely to be one of them too. Lots of questions come up. What does she like? Where to shop? How do you know if you’re buying the right piece? So many questions, and there seems to be no straight answer for each one.
There’s no need to worry. It is not a shame to perplexed. To make you feel better, most men do find it challenging to shop for jewelry.
Shopping for jewelry need not be a Titanic in your life. Here are some things to consider to help you along:
First things first, do a recon and find out what she likes.
It doesn’t mean that because it’s the latest fashion trend and it’s mighty expensive your girl will adore it. There are some women who prefer small and subtle baubles; there are others who go for huge and flashy ones. There are some women who prefer the more reserved and elegant; there are others who go for daring and playful ones. Still, there are others whose preferences include materials. Some love gold, others silver. There are even a number of women who are obsessed over specific stones.
There are so many ways to find out what she likes. Don’t call it snooping, call it investigative searching. Look through her jewelry box, drop a few hints, or if you’re really desperate, call up her friends. Maybe you can take her “window-shopping” for jewelry and see which ones bring a similar shine to her eyes.
Design should be the first thing on your mind
Hearts can be commonly found on Valentines Day and it is a surefire choice. It perfectly conforms to the occasion, plus it can be worn all-year round. The heart also signifies the emotion being felt along with the gift. By picking out a heart-shaped jewel, you are clearly sending out your message of love.
But note that you are not obliged to choose a heart shaped jewelry just because it’s Valentines Day. Also, some women are not keen on wearing anything with hearts in them. If your girl is like that, scrap the idea. Valentine jewelry gifting rules are flexible; you don’t have to stay with the motif.
Try picking out something that’s useful like a pair of silver earrings that she can wear regularly. Or go for something that would represent your girl’s personality like a violin pendant if she’s into the musical instrument. You can even pick out a design that would share the story of your relationship together just like journey pendants that can be engraved with initials. The options are endless.
Look around
A common mistake for many guys is to pop into the nearest store and grab the nearest item at hand. DON’T DO THIS. The more stores you visit, the better chance you’ll have at finding and picking the best gift there is out there. Always do it ahead of time, at least you’ll have both options and schedule on your side.
Don’t limit yourself to the typical stall in the mall. Find a vintage shop, browse online or look for those small family-based businesses that make custom jewelry setting an art form. If you’re on a budget, check out the local pawnshop. You can also check if family heirlooms can be resized or modernized.
Wherever you buy, make sure that your jewelry has a certification of authenticity. This will help ensure that what you are spending your hard-earned cash on is the real deal.
Leave her the choice.
And who knows better than your girlfriend herself, right? You can always make it LOOK like you’re not panicking and you don’t know which one to choose. It’s all in how you present it.
Here’s a tip: Befriend the jeweler or shop owner before hand, and let him know your price range. That way, he can arrange a private viewing of the jewels that fit that range for you and your lady. And if you think about it, you, your girl, and a nice, quiet, cool room filled with sparkling jewelry and other baubles does seem romantic, don’t you think?
