Dealing With Weakness and Strength Questions in your Interview
Friday, March 6th, 2009When you attend your interview, you can find yourself in a situation where there are questions flying at you - left, right and centre. It can appear unbelievably bewildering. Try to stay focussed as your next few responses may be life changing. I once had an amazing interview that led to one of my most enjoyable jobs…
I had applied to be a teacher at a local preschool, and now sat across a table, being questioned by my prospective boss - the director of the school. “What would you consider your greatest weakness?” she asked, once the intros were made. “I am a very shy person when I initially meet other people,” I answered, smiling a little. “It becomes a little detrimental, because it gets misinterpreted as conceited, or a better-than-thou attitude.” She agreed and laughed softly. “I have had just the very problem!” She answered. “I have had countless people tell me that they thought I was a witch when they initially met me!” Of course, the “witch” word she was talking about had actually started with a “B”.
Never be frightened of your weaknesses. Never lie and don’t just re-use the ones that you have heard before. There are some really tired responses to this question, such as the “I just can’t say no”. If you use one of these “standard” answers - you may come across as being a liar and untrustworthy.
What eventually got me the job was a response that I wouldn’t have planned in a hundred years! The headteacher stopped suddenly and just stared at me for a few moments and then asked - “If I had a class of children that you didn’t know on the other side of the school in a room that I haven’t yet shown you and I needed you to go in there and deal with the situation quickly - what would your initial response be?” At this point, I thought that the interview had already been lost, so I was paradoxically super-relaxed. I just laughed and told her that I would go into the centre of the room and start laughing loudly until they all went quiet and get them playing the hockey cokey or something mad like that.
Funnily enough, I was chatting to her a little while later (after I had been in post for a bit) and she told me that it was that precise answer that secured me the post. She knew that I was honest and had the ability to rapidly establish rapport with the children. So - go with the truth…
As ever, it is always sensible to ask those close to you to help you to formulate your answers to these questions. They know you well and care about you. It will be embarassing as they will start to rib you about some of your responses - but just keep persevering as it is better to be made fun of by those who are on your side than find yourself underprepared by the interview panel!
